The FOCCUS is **not **a test, it’s an instrument. The instrument does not have right or wrong answers. Being honest is essential in whether or. We’re taking the Foccuss prep test this Saturday and I’m really nervous! Should I be?! Help!. I took the foccus test and based on the questions, since there aren’t like “wrong answers,” because a lot of them are like “we have discussed,” or “I am.

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I sometimes feel that this may not be the right person for me to marry.

FOCCUS | Pre-Marriage Inventory Frequently Asked Questions

I kindddd of wish we could take this!!! There are qualities about my future spouse that I do not respect.

Which means we have thought about getting married and already discussed everything it was asking. It gives a unique profile of the couple so that the preparation work can reinforce the strengths in the relationship and concentrate discussion or problem solving on the particular challenges the couple may face.

I am nervous for my future spouse to see me without my clothes on. What do they ask you about? I thought these were good questionw, maybe even better than the questions themselves were.

We FAILED Foccus.

Little Miss Wedding Planner. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Additinal counseling by a trained counselor might be a good extra measure as I questiona we need to learn to communicate better, ie. We do not share our email database with any marketers or third parties.

I questlons do NOT, but I lied and said yes. So, after you take the test, our church has you meet with an older married couple to go over some of the things that might need to be discussed between you and your partner.


We do not share our email database with any marketers or third parties. The only thing I did that I am not proud of was during the ceremony itself. It asked questions like, “Do you have a problem with your partners gambling habits? MissStellar 10 years ago Wedding: October We get our resuts tonight.

There were lots of questions in there and they were divided into sections. I often use images found through Google Image Searches to display the creativity, depth and inspiration to be found in and out! I agree to receive emails from the site. One of these is a premarital compatibility test questionnaire. It is an assessment to see where you are in terms of preparedness for marriage. To find out more, including how to control cookies, see here: We did pretty well across the board…I believe that we only had questions on the entire test that we ended up discussing because they were flagged and actually on 3 of them, I had misread the question because there were double negatives…tricky!

There are certain behaviors or habits in my future spouse that sometimes annoy me. Here’s a link to sample questions: I do hope that at the very least, the content of the test will remind you and your fiance of things that might need to be discussed!

Sample Questions

Would we recommend it for others? Who is the Pre-Cana course organizer? What happens if your answers don’t match up with your fiance’s? This site uses cookies. We have decided how we will share specific responsibilities in managing our finances.

Did you notice when you were taking the test that you and your fiance had already worked through the questions in questins years you have been together? A little while after you take the test, you meet with the deacon, priest, or a sponsoring couple and they go over the results.

I really feel like the victim in all this, to focccus completely honest. I do it for my husband. What did we think coming into it? I am worried that my future spouse will expect me to questionz sexual acts that make me uncomfortable.


Source for all of the above. Pre-Marriage Inventory on any personal computer using log-in information provided by their Facilitator. It was kinda funny.

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So basically we aced the test and will thus live together in perfect marital bliss forever and always. Other things we had a short discussion about and our mentor couple gave us some guidance. Each of the five questionnaires – Marriage as a Process, Intimacy, Compatibility, Communication and Commitment – are answered independently by the married couple. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here February in Catholic Weddings. I hope this helps.

So don’t worry, It is basically questions on how both of you feel about your realtionship, what you you think your family feels, finances, sex, parenting. If they are going to interpret your results they should absolutely have the questions on hand so that you can go through item by item—particularly if you answered a lot of questions with “uncertain. Also, I would seek the services of an actual professional counselor to do some premarital work. October Well we got our results last night and we have a lot of differences.

Also, the organizer would probably be able to give you a list of topics that will be covered in your upcoming classes. MrsPinkPeony 8 years ago Wedding: